So while the female judge was talking I made a Lefflerish mistake...wink. I winked at her. It was an attempt to politely show her I was listening to her. She took it as if I was hitting on her. She stopped the procedings and told me never to do that in court, that it was disrespectful ... I think she thought I was flirting with her. lol. My lawyer even chimmed in.
Sorry I was just trying to be an active listener and was ready to high tail it out of there.
SO ... dont wink at a judge.