But this is my journal! I am passing on saying what I want. I like my journal, I enjoy having this moving history of my thoughts. Thus...the friends only item will start being used to express private thoughts in a more controlled way.
My journal isn't my attempt to gain attention from people I will never meet. My ego can't be built on by sticking stupid pictures of myself on here or being in a community based on this none sense. Thats why...I only gain in my use of friends only. I like the interaction with others, but now I want to control who the others are going to be. :-)
So...on now to the new friends only/sometimes public journal. Just like me, friends come first in this journal.